
hey..i woke up and 12pm today!! its just soo amazing..hehe..anyway i shud be reading my books now but i just thought of letting something out of my chest before this day ends..so bare with me..
(its more for my gurlfriends though,but guys can read it too..leave your comments for me if necesarry) ok..here goes..
Have you ever thought about what your IDEAL relationship will be like ?
Will you find love and be loved by a wonderful man who cherishes you as his little angel ?
Will he listen to you, make your feel attractive and beautiful and constantly remind you of how stunning and sexy you are to him SINCERELY ??
Will you share a deep emotional bond with him and be the one he opens up to and looks to for support and inspiration ?
Will you experience your dream of life-long romance and never-ending passion ?
Does he make an effort to see how u are doing and to wish you good night even though he was/is extremly busy the whole day ?
Will you get married one day and start a family with this man ? Do you think he has the qualities of a fine husband and father ?
Would you love to have a man in your life who is fully commited to you, a man who treats you SPECIAL and with RESPECT, gives you COMFORT and SECURITY and simply ask how your day was?
If your guy doesnt fulfill 3/4 or better yet, ALL of this requirements..trust me, he is not the ONE..dont rush for there WILL be others in the future..starting a relationship without considering and thinking will only lead you to depression,regret and guilt !
Note that Great guys get snagged all the time.Secretly ALL MEN want to find a woman that gives them that "forever" feeling and when they do,they want to keep her all for themselves..
So, how does this happen? how does a woman give a man that "feeling" that lets him know that shes the ONE?
Well , as you can imagine most guys dont really think about this stuff..and even if they did, just as you dont want to have to tell a man how to turn YOU on..a man doesnt want to tell you how to make him fall in love with you..get it??
like you, he just wants it to HAPPEN !!
So even though your man will never tell you or even hint at how you can completely capture his heart, you can bet he is secretly hoping you will do all the right things..haih..men..wat to do? hehe :0
The main problem here and the thing that stood in your way is that these men arent easy to understand!! And when you find a good man, he doesnt come with an "instruction manual" ..
Just because your girlfriends told you it wasnt your fault or that he was just a "jerk", it doesnt mean that they understand the problem (or that they understand men at all for that matter )
Most women DONt "get" men, im not saying i do..its just that they are very "closed up" but even if i meet a guy who is so "opened up" it doesnt sound right either..soo in conclusion, your friends who try to comfort and encourage you have good intentions.They’re just trying to make you feel better.. but they are also accidentally making the situation WORSE.
They’re trying to blame the situation to HIM , instead of trying to help you understand how to keep a great guy around.
The situation is MOST dangerous when you meet a really GREAT GUY, but you dont know how to "catch" him or "keep" him..Lets face it, great guys are HARD to find and when you do find one, you cant afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake. (trust me, I KNOW THIS) ^_^
You cant afford to throw away a good 3,4,5,6 months, a year or even more and risk LOSING what could be a valuable relationship just because you didnt know how to handle a particular situation. (going through that now..tell you whether it works out or not)
So..i hope my thoughts will be useful to some troubled and confuesed ppl..like myself =p..
BUt mostly, each and everyone (both parties) must be equally devoted to God and to the relationship that watever may happens,both are willing to forgive just as Jesus Christ forgave us.. like said in the Bible - love keeps no record of wrong!
Oh..and girls..dont expect your guy to do EVERYTHING for you.. its true,men are clueless but they are NOT hopeless..give them a little hope/hint and remember..they are a human too. And a guy/girl who gives up FRIENDSHIP because a relationship DIDNT work out is PLAIN STUPID!!
SO..gotta go continue studying now..hahaha..take care..God bless ..muax =^+^=