KitKat baby

guy’s point of view (cute) Message:

You might agree with it, but when it actually happens 99% of girls dont realize it till it is too late and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who will take notice.

From a guys point of view: We don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys. But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.

We don’t care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can’t wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don’t tell us we’re wrong. We’ll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in. LET US PAY FOR YOU! DON’T "FEEL BAD" We enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say "thank you." (some guys still dont do this..so wat are we to do??? ahhaa)

Kiss us when no one’s watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed. (bull shit)

You don’t have to get dressed up for us. If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. (ps: we mite be make-up-ing for the sake of our reputation ok..haha)

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up .( so true)

Don’t take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don’t get angry easily. (hmm got the hint there..)

Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don’t talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us. It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that. (sorryla..but they’re really hot..especially Tom Cruise!!! if u cant take it, then how do u expect me to live with you for the rest of my lifE?? )

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: IF YOU AREN’T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON’T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE- POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes….and say "i love you" … ….AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

-reposted from priz-

~ only love ~

2 a.m. and the rain is falling

Here we are at the crossroads once again

You’re telling me you’re so confused

You can’t make up your mind Is this meant to be You’re asking me

But only love can say - try again or walk away

But I believe for you and me The sun will shine one day

So I’ll just play my part And pray you’ll have a change of heart

But I can’t make you see it through That’s something only love can do

In your arms as the dawn is breaking

Face to face and a thousand miles apart I’ve tried my best to make you see There’s hope beyond the pain If we give enough,

if we learn to trust I know if I could find the words

To touch you deep inside You’d give our dream just one more chance

Don’t let this be our good-bye …

phew…woke up in a rush this morning..had a very early-unreasonable-crazy-insane morning class -7am ??? who in the world has class at 7am in the morning? even school dont start That early man! furthermore..i slept around 1am last nite.. thanks to erm..hehe "friends"…:) really..thanks…hehe..but ya..i woke up at 6.55am as my alarm rang..then finally got out of bed around 7.15..i know i was late but i couldnt be bothered..i was so tired..then rush through my morning routine and down the stairs..manage to catch my sista JUST BEFORE she stepped on the accelerater ! phew..thank God.haha..but guess what was the funny thing? on one hand i was holding my socks, the other hand my books and slippers on my leg!! hahaaha..n my sista was like..whats the socks for? look at ur feet! and i just threw the socks to the back of the car n slept while she drove..hehehe

class was good..i think..i was the 2nd gurl to arrive..hurray! amazingly..3/4 of the guys were already there..i was really shocked! haha..respect to u guys man.. manage to stay focus but i must admit..tears were rolling down non-stop (yawning tears) ended around 9.30 am..then took a long walk home since nichol didnt come for class-lazy bump..then reached home..collapsed right on my bed.. awwwhhh..i tell you, it was like heaven! fell asleep straight (change to shorts first of course ) then feeeeoooww..dreamland… was good and for the first time im proud to say i manage NOt to dream about timothy n i yay..finally.. coz since the start of my exam..urm..8may every single nite without fail..i see "us"…so yea..it was a dream about other guys this time..haha..this time both of the guys were already working..not dat hot though :(..we met around the shopping mall..thank God i didnt give them my phone number..haha..dreamland is really dreamy this time..even nicole coloured her hair RED !! hehe..then..so happily woke up being proud of myself for being able to "move on"..haha then my darling radio JUST HAD TO play the most sadable-lovesong-at that time - Destiny by Jim Brickman..then started laa all the wonderful thoughts..haha..sad sad…

Got up finally around 12pm…cooked noodles with my fav -soft tauhu !! yummy..ate while watching the desperate housewives series- indeed i might just be a desperate chic…hahhahaa..touch wood..then laze around..too lazy to do my work..then played around with the new comp my dad bought had to install the new messengger and gosh..all my stuff was gone..all my songs, photos and documents..yeap including the love emails i kept..:( i hope God is not trying to tell me something..hehe hint hint.. had fun uploading my photo album..:)

i kinda realise alot of things..including refreshing my memory when i read the mail from my aunt just now..some of the words really hit me..hard..hehe.. which is good in a way let me quote some of them..here goes :

GOd wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity. We were made by God for God and until you figure that out,life isn’t going to make any sense.

Life is a series of problems : either you are in one now, you’re just coming out of one, or you’re getting ready to go into another one. (trust me,this is SO true ) The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort.GOd is more interested in you than He is in making your life happy.

We can be reasonably happy here on earth but thats not the goal in life. The goal is to grow in character, in Christ likeness.

God didn’t put me on earth just to fulfill a to-do list.  He’s more interested in what I am than what I do.That’s why we’re called human beings, not human doings.

We need to ask ourselves: Am I going to live for possessions? Popularity? Am I going to be driven by pressures? Guilt? Bitterness? Materialism? Or am I going to be driven by God’s purposes  (for my life)?

No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something bad that needs to be worked on. And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is  always something good you can thank God for.

till next time !

Silence fill my room..i am so all alone..I’m dreaming of you..wishing you were lying here next to me..I’m thinking about how we used to be.. the way we hugged kept me warm,the way you stare amuses me, the way you annoy me makes it even harder to bear :)  I can still picture how we were under the moonlight staring at the highway.. i wanted so much to just hold you once more..then suddenly the phone rings..and its you on the line..all make sense now..even the tears dat kept pouring had manage to stay still..
guess its kinda weird to look back and dream.Although its just merely a memory, i still remember it like it just happened yesterday. Its one way i can fall asleep (unless I’m dead tired..haha)
Its sad that it had to end this way, but i guess without it ending it we’ll never know what went wrong. Isn’t it much more clearer now how we took things? amazing as it is, I’m still the same.
Its funny to think how I’m never tired to put us through hard rock and roller coaster killer rides and never grow weary to bring us back down safely..It just gives me more courage to do it all over again when we somehow got to get out of it safely and learn more about each other.
It tore my heart into two when i realized what i did to you. Apology not accepted for it is just a word.Easily said not easily cured.
Understandable..but hey, I’m only human
Life is like a game, a journey with many roads..taking one and always looking back is one of my mistakes..i must admit..but through all this, i know somehow He will make us both a better person.
So take caution and take care for the things around you may seem permanent and secure but you’ll never know what might happen..overnight..especially with a gal like me

What would you do if your husband/boyfriend/spouse/partner etc said these things to u ??!!

DEar wife/girlfriend/darling/dear…
1.From June 9 to July 9 2006, you should read the sports section so that you are aware of what is going on regarding the World Cup and that way you will be able to join in the conversations.If you fail to do this,then you will be looked at in a bad way or you will be totally ignored.DO NOT complain about not receiving any attention.

2. During the World Cup, the television is mine, at all times without ANY exeptions..

3. If you have to pass by in front of the tv during a game, i dont mind.AS LONG AS you do it crawling on the floor without distracting me.If u decide to stand nude in front of the tv, make sure uu put clothes on right after that becoz if u catch a cold,i wont have time to take u to the doctor or look after you during the World Cup month.

4. During the games i will be blind, deaf and mute unless i require a refill of my drink or something to eat.You are out of your mind if you expect me to listen to you, open the door, answer the phone or even pick our baby that just fell on the floor..it wont happen.

5.If you see me upset because one of my teams is losing, DO NOT say "get over,its only a game". If you say these things, it will only make me angrier and i will love u less.Remember, you will never know more about football than me and your so called "words of encouragement" will only lead to a breakup.

6. You are welcome to sit with me to watch one game and you can only talk to me during half-time but only when the commercials are on and if only the half time scores pleases me.In addition, please note that i am saying "one" game , hence do not use the World Cup as an excuse to "spend time together" ..

7.The replays of the goals are very important , i dont care if i have seen them or i havent seen them. I want to see them again.Many times.

8. Tell your friends NOT to have any baby or any other child-related parties or gatherings that require my attendance or attention because :
(a) i will not go
(b) i will not go , and
(c) i will not go.

9. BUt if a friend of mine invites us to his house on a Sunday to watch a game, we will be there in a flash.

10. The daily WOrld Cup highlights shown on TV every night are just as important as the games themselves.DO not even think about saying "but you have already seen this…why dont u change the channel to something we can all watch?" because pls refer to rule #2 and #7.

Thank you for your co-operation - sign your husband/boyfriend/spouse..

What wud u do? for me, i would probably make him read every single word to me out loud while twirling our wedding/engangement ring on my finger..and see whether he still wants to carry on with his "rules"..ahahaha

HAve you ever..
1. Love someone so much and then let ‘em go ?
2. Have to remind yourself like say 10 times to focus when you’re doing an exam paper ?
3. Needed someone so much u that you cant sleep at nite ?
4. Try to hold the tears but they just come down ?
5. Believed and hope in something so hard and so much that you never knew could work and just loose it all .. overnight ?
6. Laughed so hard till tears fall down ?
7. Stare at your phone whishing that special someone will ‘beep’ you, but didnt?
8. Got so angry at someone but totally calm down when you see that person smile ?
9. Got blinded by Love before ?
10.Pretend to smile and hide that frown ?

Life are full of choices and decisions..think, analyse, decide..choose a path and move on.
Nothing you do will ever make you regret. Each path is a new beggining, a new adventure..
Explore it, enjoy it and go with the flow.

Sadly, i learnt Love isnt everything..
Remember  a good companionship has to have the 10 C ’s !!
(div’s n my agreement
-Cute
-Charming
-Caring
-Cash
-Clever
-Capable
-Cunning
-Courageous
-Cautious
-Corny (div)haha