My baby brother

If you are a girl, and a sister - be it younger or elder to a boy in the family.. your life is almost never a bed of roses - speaking from experience :) I’m a younger sister to my sister and an elder sister to my brother..

My brother..hmm..someone who is always hyperactive, quite high in merajuking, -i wouldnt say spoilt- but rather, as a kid age 12 and below, he would want everything a kid wants. - toys,cash,fun fun fun and fun..the ASTRO remote control!! erggh.. hehe, a nice bed, his dumb ps2..(sorry)..and so many other things..but most of all, he wants attention..i would not say that as a bad thing because as a child, attention and love is Top priority. He wants to feel loved, to be involve in what me and my sister are doing..our age gap is like 7-10 years apart so its pretty hard for us..now that he has his own activities, own bunch of friends..hes getting better.but i still like him to be involve in my avtivities..even if his not, i’ll always make it a point to tell him what i went through that day/week..

My brother, can be really frustrating at times..he LOVES to mess up the hall, my room ( used to until i practically lost ALL my patience and yaaap..its worth it, he finally understands) ..eats upstairs, blast his games and the tv, leave the air-cond on for the whole day and best of all he never gives up in asking me to play with him ! ;-) ..but besides that..all his doing does really test not only my patience but the patience and temper of my dad,my mum, my sister, my cousins and even my friends..but all of us (majority) can hold it in and just let it go accepting the fact that his merely just a child, and for my friends -they respect him as my brother.

My brother, he is always - wait not always, most of the time, he is THERE.. when i need him at most (even when i dont need him at all..hehe).. Like the times when i have argument with my boyfriend, with my mum..he’ll be there.. i can actually talk to him about how i feel at that time..not caring whether he understands it or not, i just let it out.and you’ll be surprise at his reaction. at times, he will cry with me, most of the times he will try to mutualise the situation by saying that owh..mum doesnt mean it, or your friend probably dont know whats going on..sometimes he even give me ideas on what to do next- not all is logical..but the fact that he actually cares..really make me appreciate him all the more. He’s not able to provide for me -not yet- , he’s not able to fully understand what i m going through (but he’s really matured for his age i must admit) ..but what i like about him is that he always tries to make me smile :-D thats one thing all of us should try to work on..of course when he fails to get something done, or something that he wants badly,he doesnt get it..he obviously get mad,sad,frustrated..i mean who doesnt? i do !! so understanding him as a kid, as MY brother..respect to us both and my family is really important, to me. If i have ever overheard..or even hear it straight from a person that my brother is erm..maybe annoying,spoilt,cant handle,too much..etc..i will tend to harbour those angry feelings towards that person.true, maybe my brother is all that he/she have said..but THINK before you speak..im his sister..im connected to him by blood and by heart..no matter how angry or annoyed i get, his my brother and i Love him..i love him for his ’spoiltness’, i love him for his cuteness no one else has..no one..not even my husband or my bestest friend can EVER replace him. so ppl, watch what you may say in front OR even behind me. It goes the same to my parents,my sister, my boyfren (exeptional) and to all my friends dearest to me. ;-)

But right now, im really missing him alot..its the weekends and he has outdoor activities like 24hours..n i on the other hand am in the midst of my exam- dont ussually come out of my room unless to consume food :) so i dont really get to see him, much except during weekdays after im back from school i would try to catch a few minutes to eat and ask him how school wan..then i have to rush of to class..so..yea, really looking forward to spend more time with him end of this year and for the many many more years to come! >.<

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