Archive for August, 2007

so much in love …

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

JUst as my shoutout says it all, i want to shout it OUT loud!

I’m ever so fortunate for all the obvious reasons..im in love.

=P

WHat can be describe as ‘being in love’ and ‘falling in love’ ? Well, if you ask me, it is indeed a very subjective matter and its different to every individual. But hurm…to me..my opinion of it wud be.. when i am fighting/argueing etc..im definately so "not in" the love mood.. but when i have made up with my partner for the stupidity of the argument, i would then say, im ‘falling in love’ with him all over again..but now..right this minute..im definately ‘being in love’ .. when all things are smooth sailing and life is a bed of roses for you and that special someone..you are IN LOVE i suppose… and by me being in love with this guy…feels like i’m at the top of the ‘women world’…im proud to say i’ve found ‘the OnE’ ..i’m proud to say that its him who is my companion of life..although i may not know when the next storm mite come, still ..as long as the sun shines, i will aslways love him..i cant wait to get married to him..every moment we’re apart..it feels like my world is meaningless..everymoment we’re together..gawsh..undescribeable desire of happiness and joy! Image141

How can i find anyone else who is like him? in so many ways im grateful..he is everything a girl wants, a girl needs and could ever ask for..well at least a girl like me that is! ;-) as my previous post had stated, when i screw my love life, i basicly screw my whole life..so basicly..like it or not, he is my whole life.

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-Floating with the angels of love-

Possible ?

Wednesday, August 8th, 2007

Is it possible to be annoyed and to love a person so much at one go ? Vast enourmous emotions going through your head..

Your heart is longing for em’, your mind is hurting to scream at em’ , you are just so bombarded with emotions..such a dull day..thanks to your unstable emotions! Having no one to turn to just because you’re to lazy to explain anything.

Having God on your side and a prayer just doesnt quite work for now..so tired..hate dealing with such crap.

*words of insult and curses running through my lips of silence* .. will love ever stop hurting?

Bad night, horrible morning, blue afternoon .. whats evening going to be like ?

-bottledup & busted-

IELTS

Sunday, August 5th, 2007

There are a vast number of so called couples amongst youngsters today. That includes you and me ! Most relationships should start with a aim for marriage of course. Have you ever gave a thought on the issue of money between you and your partner? You obviously want to marry the person you are dating right now and before you know it,the wedding bells are ringing and YOU are in the spotlight!! (its prob just SO long for me!! =p) So in the near future, who would then pay for the house maintanance, the bills? who would pay for the food, the groceries? And when children comes into the picture, who would then pay for their education and the leisure of the family?

When two ppl begin a relationship, sooner or later the issue of money will be raised. It may be presented in terms of gender ideologies : I am a man and so i should pay for you. It could be a question of maintaining equality:  I shall pay for the meal because you have paid for the cinema. Well, as the relationship becomes more serious, the couple may contemplate sharing a house. The big question is If one persons earns more than the other, should each pay half the rent or the one who earns more pay more ??

2 types -joint bank account or individual account ??

blablabla (havnt think yet)

In conclusion, there is an association between how a couple managed their money and socioeconomic characteristics such as the total income of the household, the sources of that income, the relative amounts contributed by both partners and their education level. Handling financial issues with your spouse is not a laughing matter, for believe or not, a wrong desicion in money can and will lead to seperation !